My mother deserves a free gift box because she has THE VERY BEST INTENTIONS.
She intends to have the house clean, but dog hair, lots of paperwork and a busy life take over very quickly.
She intends to clean out that hall closet and organize all her old slides. But the project seems so huge and overwhelming that she chooses to finish more pressing projects first.
She intends to quickly put together a PowerPoint presentation for someone. Months later she’s still receiving photos to add, fighting technology to get the music to play in the right place, trying to modify the presentation so it’s shorter than a movie, all while keeping everyone involved happy.
When my mom babysits the grandkids, she intends to wash the dogs with them, have a picnic and campfire, visit Grandpa at work, plant some flowers with them, do “Kids in the Kitchen”, read lots of books, have warm cookies before bed… Obviously this does not all get done in one day.
My mother intends to be a valuable, contributing part of society. Here my mom and I have a difference of opinion. She sometimes feels she is not accomplishing this. I disagree. I see her teaching countless students German, raising dogs for Canine Companions, doing the books for her husband’s company, Expert Electric. She stops to talks to neighbors, she quilts, she swims, she goes to church. She is a huge part of her community.
My mother intends to exercise a half hour every day. She followed this routine for decades. Now she in confronted with MS and back surgery. UNFAIR!
I think intentions are what would be done in a perfect world. But we all know we are not living in a perfect world. Sometimes real life gets in the way and even the very best intentions can’t be put into action. My mom’s intentions make her human, and to me lovable.
I love my mom and her intentions.
Barbara
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